Fall is almost over

Now that fall is nearly over I feel that I must quickly blog about what we have done, especially now that tomorrow is December 1st.  We were able to find a few corn mazes to take the boys to.  One of the corn mazes we were joined by some friends and this made the maze so much more fun.  We also got to check out the Pumpkin Fest in Ludwigsburg with another friend.  Legoland was a major highlight for us all at the beginning of October.  The sculptures made out of legos were amazing and we all had a fun time in spite of the chilly weather.  And then Tom was busy with a day long retreat for the Chapel Middle School youth group - Equip.  We had a small celebration for Tom's birthday, with his favorite meal for dinner...Spaghetti Carbonara and for his cake I made a homemade tiramisu.  Not too bad for a first try (and with a box mixes help).

Then there was the Pumpkin Drop.  Gregory's school does an annual Pumpkin Drop around the 31st of October.  Each class decorates a VERY large box and fills it with specific varieties of objects.  Gregory's class was marshmallows and popcorn.  Each elementary class is paired with a couple of high school students to do this project.  And then near the end of a school day a ladder fire truck is brought in and 5 grocery carts full of pumpkins are brought in too.  Joshua and I got to watch much of this event with the school.  It was fun to see the decorated boxes (oh and they are assigned a state to help with the themes of the decorations on the box).  Gregory's class was Delaware.  The goal is to have the pumpkin drop into the box and for it not to break apart after it lands in the box.  I think there was only one pumpkin that succeeded and it wasn't Gregory's class, but Gregory still had a ton of fun with this.  Joshua continues even now to almost daily talk about the Pumpkin Drop and how it goes "boom". 

There were a few other smaller activities of bowling with friends and our first decent snow fall (about 5 inches or so).  And then there was Thanksgiving, but that will have a post of it's own.  As always, there's more pics at our shutterfly website.  http://tomandroxannecook.shutterfly.com/action/

Soccer Season

At the beginning of this month we finished out our first go around with sports.  Gregory played on a 4 & 5 year old team, the Purple Monsters.  He had fun, but also learned what he doesn't like about soccer.  He enjoyed the practice, but didn't like the games.  He says he didn't like that he couldn't use his hands and could only use his feet and legs.  So this spring he wants to try baseball or t-ball.  We are thinking this might be a better fit for him since it's not as physical or as aggressive as soccer can be (even for 4 and 5 year olds).  It was fun being a "soccer mom" for a season, we'll see if Joshua wants to try it in a year or so...I might get another chance.    

 

My boys are growing up - Gregory

So already over a week ago Gregory started his career as a student.  We found out the Friday before Gregory would start school who his teacher is and what class he'll be in...a Multi-Grade Class (K, 1 & 2).  We had marked the box for Gregory to be put in this class so that if it was "God's plan" for him to be in this class then we were open to it.  Nervous about it, but open to it and besides out of over 100 students, only 14 kindergartners were randomly selected to be in the multi-grade class.  Anyways, so Gregory was chosen.  After the first couple of days we were feeling better about Gregory being in a multi-grade class.  I am pretty sure the "shock" of being at school from 8 - 230 every day and not being with mom and dad during this time was a big source of what we were concerned about.  

Also, we started the common "first day of school picture" tradition and added a little bit more to it by having Gregory write his name and telling me what he wants to be when he grows up.  This will be an item to cherish over the years for sure.  And for those who are curious he wants to be a paleontologist, police officer or an astronaut (and a few days later added a pilot).  Big dream...love it!

Gregory will be quick to tell you that his favorite parts of school are recess and lunch.  He loves the cafeteria food!  I guess I might too if I had THREE choices for a main entree every day.  He loves going to the library, doing crafts (art), likes music, enjoys PE and has made friends quickly (not a surprise!).

So far he has learned to count by two's, learned about syllables and counting them, learned some German (since this is our "host nation"), learned some Spanish (because everyone should know some, right? haha).  Gregory is such a sponge and loves learning, I pray this continues well into his life...actually throughout his entire life.

Another new thing for Gregory is "organized" sports.  Gregory is playing for the Purple Monsters soccer team (a base youth sports team).  This is the 4 & 5 year olds team.  So he has practice once a week and a game on Saturdays for about 2 months.  Today was their first game and it was about 80 degrees outside, so very hot and Gregory was so tired due to the heat so he didn't want to play very much (kind of understandable, but this also shows how dedicated Gregory is to the sport already :-)  He did help his team out some and got to share in the victory of his team winning.  It was fun to watch him and the other kids play today.    

My boys are growing up - Joshua

This week has been full of big "deals" in our house.  In brief...Gregory started school and Joshua got rid of his pacifier.

Joshua getting rid of his pacifier has a little less detail about it so I'll start with this...Tom and I have been saying that Joshua's paci is yucky and trash for quite a while in hopes that he would start agreeing with us and finally on Thursday morning just out of the blue Joshua walked over to the trash can and threw his paci in the trash.  Since I was concerned what bedtime (or naptime) might look like I explained to Joshua that we needed to put paci in a bag to throw it away.  Luckily, Gregory was at school or he would have been asking lots of questions about "what" we were doing.  With Joshua it's easier sometimes since he doesn't need an answer for "why?".  So we got a ziploc bag and put paci in there and then tossed it back in the trash.  After Joshua had walked away and was no where in the area to see what I was doing...I snatched the paci out of the trash and put it away far from Joshua's sight just in case.  We had also told Joshua when he got rid of paci we'd get him a new stuffed Pooh.  He loves Pooh and doesn't have a Winnie the Pooh...he has Tigger, but not Pooh.  Anyways, so I kept talking about how the next day when Gregory was in school we'd go to the toy store and get him Pooh.  There have only been a couple of times Joshua has asked for his "wawa"...don't ask where that name came from...we have no idea!  But I have been quick to remind him that HE put paci in the trash and now he has Pooh because he is a big boy.  We are so proud of Joshua and so thankful this hasn't been as hard as we anticipated.  Thank you Jesus!  Now to move on to potty training...maybe we should wait till he's ready on this too...it might work better :-)     

Here's a picture of Joshua with his new Pooh that he sleeps with.  No more "stinky wawa" as Joshua says :-)

Summer is over...

As always, I've been slacking on my blog, so here's my attempt to catch up.

Our summer was busy, not too busy, but busy enough.  We spent LOTS of time outside, especially at the playground by our house.  We made a few trips up to Ramstein/Landstuhl for doctor appointments.  We (me and the boys) went to a Barefoot Park, where you do just that...walk around barefoot and then you get to experience different feelings on your feet.  We walked on a bed of nail heads, bark, small rocks, large rocks, pinecones, etc.  We walked the shorter path, so we didn't get to walk through the mud or on the polished glass pieces...maybe next time.  We spent lots of time with our friends when we were outside too.  A few times we even played in the water with multiple sprinklers, a medium sized pool, water balloons, squirt guns and spray bottles.

 

Since we've been without A/C in both our van and our car we have not traveled too far...to help keep cool we've enjoyed some YUMMY ice cream (more like gelato) and cold watermelon.

After looking back at my pictures my memory was jogged and I am remembering a few more things we did...we were all involved in VBS (Joshua, Gregory and Roxanne).  I (Roxanne) enjoyed being in charge of a group of about eight 4-year olds.  Gregory LOVED everything about VBS, but his favorite time was "game time".  And Joshua was thrilled to be with his best bud, TJ, for the WHOLE week.  These two boys are a day apart and TJs mom helped out in the nursery...and of course Joshua loves TJs mom too.  This week created some special memories and I hope to continue being involved in a VBS program every year to encourage time devoted to learning more about God.  I can recall many memories from my times with VBS and I hope to let Gregory and Joshua have these special times as well.

At the beginning of summer we spent some extra time with our friends Jan and Ginger up in Ramstein.  We visited the Gartenschau where there is a dinosaur park and lots of play areas.  The 8 kids all had a great time...our two, Jan's four, and Jan's brother's two.  Even though we lived in Ramstein for 4 years we never felt the desire to visit the Gartenschau, but now with kids we knew we needed to check it out...especially since Gregory has such a desire to know more about dinosaurs.

Another adventure we had was going to an Animal Park that's not too far from where we live.  We saw lots of deer, bison, goats, a couple of owls, chickens, sheep, rabbits, moose and a few other animals.  There were some areas where you could pet the animals and you could buy food to feed many of the animals as well.  Of course Gregory and Joshua ended up throwing the food at the animals instead of letting them eat out of their hands...the goats we started with were just to slobbery :-) 

We also had to say goodbye to some friends and this is and will always be one of the hardest things about being a part of the military community.  Some of those friends we said goodbye to were:  Gregory's wonderful Preschool teacher--Mrs. Wilharms and my MOPS Coordinator--Jenny Wilson.
Now that the summer has ended it's time for a new chapter in our lives...Gregory going to school!  See next post for more on this :-)

Belated Father's Day post

As I am catching up on blogging I am thinking about what the "important" things are that I want to blog about and this is one of those important things.  Father's Day!

I know Father's Day was a while ago and I know Tom is not my father, but he is the father of my two wonderful boys and I don't often take enough time to celebrate him and all he means to me and our family, so he deserves this blog (and then some).

This past year he completed his CCAF Degree with the Air Force (this is the equivalent to an AA degree at a college).  I know it's not as big of a deal as a four degree, but it is half way there.  Congrats!

He is also working hard on his Youth Ministry degree with SAGU still while working with the Air Force.  Currently he has a lot of medical issues and he tries hard to not let them get in the way of life, but sometimes he just has to take a break.  And other times he just wants to forget about all the pain and still wrestle around with his boys...they'll only be little for so long (and then they'll be taking their daddy down!)  Tom frequently takes time to play games with Gregory and always makes sure that the rules are learned and followed.  Something that not all kids learn these days.  His passion is ministering to youth and over the past 9 years we've been together I have seen him grow so much in this passion (he might find this hard to believe that it could grow, but I've seen it through the different experiences we've gone through and through the different groups we've worked with).  His passion for God has deepened as well over the 10 years we've known each other.  Of course we all have room to grow in our desire to be more like Christ, but it's been awesome to see how God has drawn Tom to himself and how Tom has developed a deeper desire for Christ. 

I know Tom's not perfect, but I am happy to call him my husband and I know my boys LOVE their daddy and look up to him with everything in them.  All he needs sometime is a reminder that those two boys are watching his every move and they are going to grow up to be just like him (whether he likes it or not) :-) 

Tom I am praying for you and loving you with every step we take together.  Even though Father's Day was a month ago, I just want you to know that you are appreciated every day...not just on Father's Day.  I love you and thanks for being such a wonderful dad to our boys.

Our MAY trip to MO and MN

As usual, I am VERY behind in blogging...feeling like not doing it anymore, but I don't want to give it up for good.  I also don't like when I get so far behind that I feel like I'll never catch up...that's how I feel right now too.  Even though I have all of these feelings, I will press on!  So I hope someone's out there reading my blog and making it worth it. 

Over two months ago now we flew back to the US from Stuttgart.  The flight from Stuttgart to Atlanta was uneventful, thankfully.  And from Atlanta to Springfield, the same.  We had a good time in Springfield.  Time went too quickly as always.  We were so thankful everything worked out for our visit.  God definitely helped put everything together.  We were able to buy the house Betty was living in so she didn't have to move since the people she was renting from were wanting to sell the house.  This was all done in about 45 days, thanks to a great friend in MO who is now a realtor (Michael Cataldo is a great realtor in case you need one!)  We also got to enjoy being there to support my sister-in-law at her college graduation, from CBC.  Congrats!  Of course there were late night chats, enjoying time with our niece and nephews and our boys loved being with there grandma Betty and cousins and aunt and uncle.  We got to enjoy some shopping time at Walmart (which we miss a ton when we are gone!)  I got to see my best friend, Carla and her little girl and enjoy so many missed restaurants!  It's always nice to spend time with family and not have to do it with a phone or computer involved.

After spending a week in MO we flew to Minneapolis.  Once again we had great flights and no problems.  After being there the first night, Tom and I got away for a special night away...just the two of us.  We got some great deals using our airline miles (for our restaurant and hotel).  This was the first night we had spent alone (with no kids and no hospital stay involved) since Gregory was born (so about 5 years).  We were very thankful to Bryan and Raquel for watching our boys...they got a little reminder of how much attention Joshua needs (see my sister's blog to hear about this).  So sorry Bryan!  And then the day after my parents arrived.  Our nephews and Gregory got to spend so much time in grandma and grandpa's new (to them) motorhome and loved hanging out with them too.  We got to see where my sister volunteers (at the MN Science Museum) and see where Dr. Bryan hangs out and "practices medicine" :-)  We got to spend time with my younger brother and his family as well...watching Kirk play some softball, eating and hanging out at the Mall of America and riding rides.  Thanks guys for the fun times.

When all the fun in the USA was done we got back on the planes and made it back to Stuttgart with no problems...only minor flare-ups with Joshua on the 9 + hrs flight.  It was a good time, but jet-lag, really IS ROUGH!  Yuk!     

As always there are lots of new pics at our shutterfly page...  http://tomandroxannecook.shutterfly.com/